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Presumably the user of such instructions doesn't intend to have a long enough relationship with the 'target' for her to discover that he hasn't got a friend called Rod?
If you're not aware of these people, "the seduction community" is basically kind of like Scientology for men who are really desperate to get laid. There's a current thread on POE News where they're collating all of the crazy.
Warning, thar be swears.
Bloomsbury could have used the Australian cover, which would have cost no extra money and saved everybody's pride; or they could have spent some money commissioning a new cover, with or without a picture of a person on it, which would have shown they'd taken the point and wanted to respond constructively. But they've decided to put in precisely enough time, thought, and money to change only the one very specific thing that Larbalestier complained about and nothing else. It says, 'We surrender unconditionally without in any way accepting that we were wrong'; it says, 'We'll cooperate to extent of doing precisely what you ask with a pointed lack of enthusiasm'. Which is quite childish but also understandable, especially if the original cover really was trying sincerely (though unwisely and even perhaps unconsciously racistly) to do something interesting.
It's news to me (since I essentially live under a rock). I notice that the girl on the new cover, while technically black, is still on the paler end of the spectrum. Maybe I'm too cynical for my own good, but I can't help wondering if that wasn't a deliberate decision on the part of the publishers so as not to make her too black.
Tim Wise has suggested that Barack Obama had a somewhat easier time winning over white voters because he wasn't as black as, say, Paul Robeson.
On the plus side, those look like some interesting books and interesting authors. Must check them out someday ...
There had better be some damn good reform soon.
This is what Republicans actually believe.
Context is here.
(Rami's thing, not the American scariness. The scariness is scary.)